Out there, somewhere, you will find something that is close to perfect. Believe me, you can find it. You just have to search.
Searching is often difficult for us because it requires us to be active, not passive, and step outside our places of safety. It’s not necessary to go out and search, either. If you are truly happy, truly at peace, then perhaps searching is not prudent or even constructive.
When the opposite is true, however, then we owe ourselves a good search. Even when we are selling ourselves short or enduring humiliation or subjecting ourselves to unjust treatment, the urge to sit still, to compromise, is so incredibly strong. The default is to not act. We have to overcome the default, though, and strive to realize our true potential. We do this by searching.
Search. You will find.